Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Words Better Off DEAD Than Said


Words Better Off Dead Than Said


“Do not write like you talk.”

I wish I had a dime for every time I’ve said those words over the years to my English students. If I did, I would no doubt be laying on a beach somewhere sipping a fruity drink with a little umbrella perched in it.

Since the lecture was met with mild interest and ultimately ignored, I gave up “telling” them to avoid these words when writing a formal paper, and instead, resorted to the ultimate teacher weapon - “the handout.” I discovered that by calling them “Words Better Off Dead Than Said,” my students actually paid attention.

These words need no explanation. They are like weeds in a garden, and they often appear in our writing and must be weeded out. I am always adding words to the list, so I appreciate suggestions.:)

Words Better Off Dead Than Said
VERY or any variation such as VERY MUCH, VERY SICK, VERY HAPPY…
A LOT
GET
GOT
GREAT
I MEAN
KIND OF
LIKE
NICE
OKAY
REALLY
SORTA or SORT OF
STUFF
THING
YOU KNOW


Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Books I Recommend

When I do writing workshops, I am often asked to recommend books and authors. Just yesterday, I did a reading from Mama's Shoes at the Princeton Public Library in Princeton, WVA and we found ourselves talking about books by Appalachian authors. I recommended books and authors that many in this group hadn't read, and I was delighted at their excitement. I decided to post my list, that is forever growing, here. I would love to hear your recommendations for a "good read."


Books I HIGHLY Recommend
To Kill a Mockingbird Harper Lee
The Help Kathryn Stoddard
Olive Kitteridge Elizabeth Strout
Gilead Marilynne Robinson
Cold Sassy Tree Olive Ann Burns
Family Linen/Oral History/Saving Grace Lee Smith
The Scarlet Thread Francine Rivers
Eli the Good/The Coal Tattoo/Clay's Quilt/A Parchmentt of Leaves Silas House
Lonesome Dove Larry McMurtry
Cold Mountain Charles Frazier
The Cove/One Foot in Eden Ron Rash
The Secret Life of Bees Sue Monk Kidd
Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant Anne Tyler
Plainson/ Eventide by Kent Haruf
The Lovely Bones Alice Sebold
Snow Falling on Cedars David Guterson
The Dollmaker Harriette Arnow
She's Come Undone Wally Lamb
Beloved/Home  Toni Morrison
Poisonwood Bible Barbara Kingsolver
The Typist Michael Knight
Room Emma Donoghue
The Color Purple Alice Walker
Pilgrim at Tinker Creek  Annie Dillard
Bloodroot Amy Greene
Tinkers Paul Harding
Their Eyes Were Watching God Zora Neale Hurston
Winter’s Bone by Daniel Woodrell
The Unquiet Earth/Storming Heaven Denise Giardina
Moon Women/Plant Life/The Big Beautiful Pam Duncan
River of Earth James Still
The Common Man Maurice Manning 

My Sister's Keeper/The Pact/ Nineteen Minutes Jodi Picoult

I must say that once I fall in love with an author, I read everything by that writer! If you notice, there are writers listed who have many more works than I listed. It goes without saying that I recommend all of that writer's works.










Monday, July 30, 2012

The Olympics of Words

Have you been watching the Olympics? It's inspiring, isn't it? It occurred to me that the Olympics and writing have a lot in common, so I decided to compare writing and preparing for the Olympics. Here goes...


It is your calling. It starts with a dream (idea). For years you practice (study) to be an _____*insert sport*(writer). It takes thousands and thousands of hours of practice (words) to develop your talent.

The day comes when you are ready to try out for the team (submit your work). All those years of hard work (writing) come down to one event. You get accepted or rejected. If you are one of the lucky ones who makes the team (gets accepted), the hard work continues.

You now spend thousands of hours practicing (rewriting). Your new goal is to win a medal (sell your book). It is the ultimate prize for all of those years of practice (writing). If you do win the gold medal (make the best seller list) you may end up on a Wheaties box (with a movie based on your book)! But seeing that book on the shelf (your name on the team roster) is the most wonderful feeling in the world.

Now you can sit back and enjoy your success, that is until you must start practicing (writing) again for the next Olympics (book)! All the while you work (write), you are hoping your fans will remember you!

Saturday, July 14, 2012

Inspiration


Writers are often asked where so do you get your ideas? What inspires you?

Answer - inspiration is everywhere. You may say that’s a cop-out answer, but I have heard countless writers say inspiration is everywhere. I admit, there was a time I felt it was a cliché until I learned to look at the world with the right attitude. When I opened my heart to the world, inspiration was everywhere.

I am inspired by what I see. A box marked return to sender or an old rusty tin can discovered in the tall grass is inspiring. Both of those hold endless possibilities – why was the box returned? Was it refused by a former lover? And who dropped that old can? How long has it been there?

I am inspired by what I hear. Nothing sounds sweeter than the music of the forest at night; a symphony of sounds that goes on all night long. Crickets chirping, owls hooting, the wind whispering through the trees stirs your soul! And don’t forget the melody all of those sounds you can’t identify. Have you ever heard a sudden burst of laughter or a deluge of tears? Did it make you wonder why the sudden laughter or tears?

I am inspired by smells. The aroma of an apple pie baking can stir my creative juices and suddenly, I am creating a character sitting in a warm cozy kitchen, waiting to eat that pie, or I am taken back to my childhood and I am the person waiting for the pie to come out of the oven. A whiff of perfume or the scent of a flower can contain many secrets. Have you ever caught a scent on the wind and wondered what it was?

I am inspired by touch. A dog’s wet nose nudging my hand and the velvety softness of his fur slipping through my fingers tells me a story of the miles he’s run and played, the holes he’s dug, and the critters he’s chased. When you touch an infant’s skin, it leaves the memory of its softness imprinted on your fingertips forever. Have you ever let your fingertips tell you a story?

I am inspired by taste. Grandma’s chicken and dumplings or a scoop of my favorite ice cream evokes a myriad of memories. All I have to do is listen. The sweet taste of your lover’s lips or the bitter taste of your own tears can move you to words flowing down the page. Have you ever tasted fear? Happiness?



Inspiration is everywhere. We just have to open our hearts and our minds to find it. Many years ago, before I ever dreamed of being a writer, I saw this quote on a professor’s door while I was wandering the halls of a building, its name long forgotten, at Virginia Commonwealth University. At the time, I was a new teacher and taking a summer workshop. I don’t remember much about that workshop, but I never forgot that quote. I embraced it and have read it millions of times over the years. It taught me a new way to look at life, and it taught me that inspiration is, indeed, everywhere.


Attitude to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company...a church...a home. The remarkable is you have a choice every day regarding the attitude you will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past...we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is ten percent what happens to me and ninety percent how I react to it. And so it is with you. You are in charge of your attitude. - Charles R. Swindoll



Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Patrice Melnick: Louisiana Poet, Festival Muse


Patrice Melnick: Louisiana Poet, Festival Muse
by
 Natalie Parker-Lawrence
      Guest blogger for Rebecca Elswick

            Grand Coteau, Lousiana, is a town where the sidewalks are flat even with the streets, no need for curb cuts, no need for curbs.  And somehow, without cement barriers, the houses, the churches, the shops, and the farms, welcome lost strangers with haphazard directions, inquisitive visitors from far away, residents from the coast fleeing hurricanes, and those who seek serenity here on religious pilgrimages.  Writers ease their cars into the town, their tires crunching little rocks as they roll up to savor the next place of inspiration. 

             Patrice Melnick lives and writes in this little town, across the highway from Sunset, down Interstate 49, at Exit 11, between Lafayette and Opelousas.  She grows flowers and throws birdseed for creatures outside her breakfast room window.  Her cat and her husband, Olan, complement her steps. 

            Her friends, including famous writers (Darrell Bourque, Leslie D!, Tony Daspit, Clare L. Martin, Forrest Roth, Xero Skidmore, Christopher Shipman, Murray Shugars, Lana Wiggins, Reggie Scott Young, Desiree Dallagiacomo, Toi Derricotte, Barb Johnson, Latasha Witherspoon, Timothy Seibles) and former students like me, wish we could spend one month a year in the writer’s house behind her house (we would get so much accomplished!).

            Patrice, a muse to many even though they have only known her through computer connections, invites writers come to bask in the tranquility of Grand Coteau. Artists in the inspiring gallery, forum, theatre, all under the roof of her shop, relish the opportunities to learn to read aloud, to love the sound of their voices, and to share the gifts of their talents with aspiring writers.  She organizes the musicians, the authors in the schools, the community writing workshops, the book signings, the drive-by poetry performances, the book fair, the independent films, the open mic nights, meme en francais!

            Recently, Patrice encouraged others from her community to recite stories from their pasts.  The natives and residents of Grand Coteau recollected narratives, filmed for posterity, about school, family life, and work in stories that are “funny or sad; angry or joyful.”  Some might involve the yearly 7-mile Yard Sale during the annual Festival of Words, this year from October 30 to November 3.

            The Executive Director of the Festival of Words (Cultural Arts Collective) since 2010, Patrice also works on projects for her community as well as personal ones as the proprietor of Casa Azul Gifts, the Community Arts Education Program Director for Frederick L’Ecole Des Arts, adjunct professor of English for the University of New Orleans, associate professor of English for Xavier University, and writer in poetry and nonfiction.  She spent from 1985 to 1987 in the Central African Republic as a Peace Corps volunteer where she taught English as a Foreign Language. She earned her MFA from the University of Alaska in 1990.

             Her first book, Turning Up the Volume (Xavier Review Press), was published in 2005.  Her essays have been published in many journals.  Here is the end of an excerpt of one of her essays from her Peace Corps days, “Water,” published in Drunken Boat:

            As we walked, I wondered where we would find water again.  Whose water
            would we ask for, cool water, drawn up from a hundred meters through the
            ground.  Would it again be from people who distrusted us, but gave out of
            obligation, for no one in the desert is refused water. Perhaps water would be
            given by a woman who had carried it on her head.  We would have to accept
            water again.  What could we give?  A song? I felt the sun burn like a pair of
            copper eyes.

            As a woman, Patrice desires the comfort of friends and freedom from chronic illness.  She has two publications forthcoming, Contraband Poboy: From Diagnosis Back to Life (Catalyst Book Press, June 2012) and The Spirit of Grand Coteau (ULL Press, November, 2012). She writes:

            We were all women in this office and we often discussed our personal lives. 
            I thought about paraplegics, parents of terminally ill children, individuals
            trailed with a history of abuse as children, families with a suicidal family
            member.  I would be hard-pressed to say that I would exchange my HIV
            diagnosis for someone else’s problems.  I can’t imagine anyone exchanging
            her problems for HIV. People adjust to their situations: Louisianans live
            with hurricane threats and Californians expect earthquakes.  We own pain
            like emotional real estate and it contributes to our identities.  Would you
            exchange your problems for mine?  People live most comfortably with the
            burdens they know best and fear the unfamiliar ones. 

            As a writer and teacher, Patrice wishes for people to remember their best, though fearful, stories as well as their ordinary ones because that recounting on paper and into the air documents the vulnerability, the struggles, the pain, the release, and the peace that all of us seek.    

            As a neighbor, she wants to record the historical memories of the people of St. Landry’s parish in southern Louisiana.

            As a friend, Patrice does not ask for more than this.  And yet, she celebrates the abundant richness of all the stories of all the people who wander into her small town, offering to share their gift of words with a beautiful writer who lives to receive them.

             
           

Don't forget this is a blog tour, so be sure to visit the upcoming blogs. Here's the schedule!

Tour Date: Wed. June 27 - Check Out Today's Featured Blogs!!
Blog Name: http://charitywrites.blogspot.com 
Title: Charity's Writing Journey "Hospitality, Welcome to the South"
Title: "Evolution AND Creationism: The Birth of a Southern Novel"
Tour Date: Th. June 28
Title: "Patrice Melnick: Louisiana Poet, Festival Muse"
Title: "Pictures and Words"
Tour Date: Fri. June 29
Title: "The Flavors of My Childhood"
Title: "Not Your Storybook Southern Belle"
Tour Date: Sat. June 30
Title: "Changing The Past, Inventing The Future"
Title: "Southern Gentlemen"
Tour Date: Sun. July 1
Title: "New Orleans Caulbearers"
Blog Name: A Penny and Change
Title: "Change...as the moon goes on shining"
Tour Date: Mon. July 2
Title: "Texas Tornadoes and Other Memories"
Title: "A (Southern) Life in Poems"
Tour Date: Tue. July 3
Blog Name: A Penny's Worth
Title: "Books & Business & Reality: No magic bullet"
Blog Name: The Novelette
Title: "Southern Living with True Grit"
           
   

Announcing "She Writes Southern Writers Blog Tour"

During the week leading up to the 4th of July, two blogs will be featured every day sharing their interpretation of the "She Writes Southern Writers 4th of July Countdown Blog Tour" theme: “Southern Living.”

People who leave insightful comments on the blog post(s) during the tour will be entered into a random drawing to receive a special Southern Living-themed prize (worth $50) donated by Zetta Brown and JimandZetta.com Author/Publisher Services. The more blogs you visit and the more comments you make throughout the tour, the more chances you get!

Here's the schedule!

Notice that I will be hosting a guest blogger tomorrow, June 28! I am excited to host Natalie Parker Lawrence!

 

Tour Date: Wed. June 27 - Check Out Today's Featured Blogs!!
Blog Name: http://charitywrites.blogspot.com 
Title: Charity's Writing Journey "Hospitality, Welcome to the South"
Title: "Evolution AND Creationism: The Birth of a Southern Novel"
Tour Date: Th. June 28
Title: "Patrice Melnick: Louisiana Poet, Festival Muse"
Title: "Pictures and Words"
Tour Date: Fri. June 29
Title: "The Flavors of My Childhood"
Title: "Not Your Storybook Southern Belle"
Tour Date: Sat. June 30
Title: "Changing The Past, Inventing The Future"
Title: "Southern Gentlemen"
Tour Date: Sun. July 1
Title: "New Orleans Caulbearers"
Blog Name: A Penny and Change
Title: "Change...as the moon goes on shining"
Tour Date: Mon. July 2
Title: "Texas Tornadoes and Other Memories"
Title: "A (Southern) Life in Poems"
Tour Date: Tue. July 3
Blog Name: A Penny's Worth
Title: "Books & Business & Reality: No magic bullet"
Blog Name: The Novelette
Title: "Southern Living with True Grit"

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Just how Southern are Y'all?

I saw this on Facebook and had to share it with y'all. At first I smiled, then nodded in agreement, and then laughed out loud!


Women throughout the South have "blessed the hearts" of many people while extolling their short comings such as, "Louise sure has put the weight on, bless her heart." Because you see, adding "bless her heart" cancels out the fact that you are trashing Louise or "talking that trash." In fact, by adding "bless her heart" you are showing how much you care about poor Louise and her weight problem.

 

And yes, I do know where yonder is and I even know the distance of a "fer piece, a ways off, and off." "Off" is how we southerners explain where someone who is not from the south lives, as in "He's from off."

 

In the South we eat baloney, not bologna, and we "drank" sweet tea. We even fry that baloney and add our sugar to the whole jug of tea when it's fresh made. We'd never think of handing a visitor a glass of tea and a sugar bowl! We also like lots of ice in our tea. None of that lukewarm stuff for Southerners.

 

I must also admit to piddling around. Yes, I am guilty, but I get it honest from my mama who got it from her mama.  My mama can open a drawer looking for a particular item, and an hour later the entire contents of the drawer are spread out on the bed and she's completely forgotten what she was looking for in the first place. I suffer from this same disease, and often go upstairs to get something only to come back downstairs an hour later empty handed, but by crackies I dusted the bedroom!

 

At the grocery store I do indeed put my items in a buggy. I may insist the bag boy put my frozen foods in a paper poke, and if I forget the sugar, I make my son go fetch it while I stand in line at the check-out. In my buggy you might find some chicken, squash, potatoes, and meal to make cornbread with, and every one of those items is going to be fried! And of course, we'll have ice-cold sweet tea to drank!